I’m a spectator so my setting hasn’t changed. My relative in my home didn’t get actively involved in the decisions to terminate the fetus. He also didn’t volunteer to take over raising the baby. He wouldn’t be doing any of that work and he can’t expect the other females in the house to take over. I’m in no state to raise a baby and neither is the other female in the house. My neighbors had been raving and ranting about being inconvenienced with having to do gaslighting to work on people. They are no people to tolerate a baby.